OK. So I waited a while and re-read the OP three times. Here is my two cents. If our community has fallen to last on the list, then maybe the best thing to do is to follow your instincts and feelings. Most of us love love love it here. But, it is not for everyone. I certainly agree that spending more time here would be the best course to take. If you are not able to do that, do what you need to do to make sure that this extremely important decision is correct for you.
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