I guess it all depends where ones mind is when reading between the lines.
A perfect case of hearing what one wants to hear....believing what one wants to believe was said whether that was the intent of the speaker.
Sorry to disappoint some of you but my mind does not travel at that level.
When I accept Cassie's apology it means I meant all things she said. Sexism had absolutely nothing to do with my comment.
Further, let there be no mistake if I were to say something sexist, let's just say there would be no doubt in any of your minds whether I did or not...it would be crystal clear and most assuredly offensive.
It must be terrible going through life not knowing what people mean when they talk.
I find it annoying when others try to say what they think I meant.....but I get over it quickly....usually :joke:

BTK