Susan, people stay in marriages for all kinds of reasons. My husband's cousin is going through this right now. I agree that it's sad and not as it should be, but it is a fact of life. I honestly believe Hillary stayed in that marriage for more than just political power. Yes, political was part of it, but we can't see into her heart. I guess I never gave it any really deep thought until my husband's cousin started going through it. She asked me my opinion and yes, my first reaction was to say kick him to the curb. (Which I didn't say, I just let her talk.) And I'm glad I did because after listening to her, I can see where she's coming from.

I'm one of the lucky ones with my husband as my soulmate and I think you are too.