[EPutnam1863]

The man is thinking with his pecker while the much younger woman is of course thinking of money and security.

Florida law requires that the widow be allowed to remain in the house even if she is not on the deed. So the heirs will have to wait and wait and wait until she finally moves out, either by head or by feet. We had a friend whose 20 yr younger girlfriend refused to move in with him unless he married her, promised her all of his pension, promised to buy her a fancy new car every six months, to leave the house for her to sell so she could pass the proceeds to her two sons from a previous marriage. In turn, she would take care of him, and his own daughters would get nothing.