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Originally Posted by ColdNoMore
Just out of curiosity, is this potential move to be closer to you, for better job opportunities...or to possibly move in with you?
It's my opinion that at some point, you need to live for yourself and do what YOU want...not what your child wants.
All too many parents (and certainly not saying you're one of them by any means), have been 'emotionally blackmailed' (even if it's subtle) by their children who don't understand that the parents job on raising and supporting them is over when they become adults ...and it's now their time to go out in the world and make their mark on their own.
It might be a good idea to at least think of talking to a professional, explain your entire personal situation...and then really listen to their objective comments.  |
Children can drive us crazy. No, my son does not want to live with us. I think his new wife who grew up in Long Island does not want to leave her family. I do not know if it is a subtle hint to be closer to us either. He says he can come down and visit. My son is a golf player. He has been in the military for 10 yrs and might leave, when he can, he is a Major, get a job here and live. Like you said we cannot live for our children. On the other hand, my daughter in law likes family around. It is confusing. But we will have to decide for ourselves.