[samhass]

Nonie, If the nip and tuck makes a person feel better, so be it. A nip and tuck will not however, change any underlying unhappiness. It could become a never ending battle against time. I have put on 50 pounds since menopause. Does it cause my friends to like me less?
Get to good looking and you may become threatening to your more insecure friends. How my husband feels about me if very important. My GFs are next in line. (I have excluded Grands..they love you anyway) My friends do not care if my eyes bag or I am chunky. They accept and love me as I am. I really don't care how strangers perceive me and I could totally care less if other men think I'm cute, hot, good looking or whatever.
Many of us have to undergo necessary surgery. That optional stuff is just that..optional.
Nonie, you are so beautiful now. If you get any prettier, I might be jealous. :-*