i love all the comments and please keep them coming...i am not exactly asking for advice, just want to spark a debate on the forum and give food for thought to everyone who reads it....i especially love the quote about marrying the one you can't live without. and i would have to say to the post about where do i feel most alive and myself, is when i am in Italy!
so that is not likely to happen on a long term basis
Madelaine Amee you really struck a chord with me, thank you! now let's hear from a few others!