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Originally Posted by Jazuela
When we move, it'll be to our final owned property. After that, it'll be assisted living, a "home," or the grave. I realize moving is a hobby for some of you, but for others, we move when we have to, not when we want to. I don't want to move at all and now that we have to, MY first choice would be the desert, not Florida. But it's not my decision to make so no, I don't have choices. I can either move where my spouse chooses to move, or he says he'll miss me.
I certainly have input into this, but the decision is ultimately his. And so, I'm looking at all possible options so that I am able to be at peace with this process.
To those who criticize me so blatantly here, you can thank yourselves for my attitude.
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I think this post explains a lot about the demeanor of your posts in general and am sad that this is not a happy and exciting process for you as it is for so many of us.
As far as your last statement, I think the criticism you are seeing is probably a result of the presentation and tone of your posts, especially not knowing your circumstances until now. My experience in TV is this - if you come down and walk the streets with a smile on your face you will most likely get that and more in return. We have found we could have easily made fast friends with people we encountered just walking down the street, or bumped into in a rec center, or even while standing in line somewhere as we could have in our own neighborhood. In other words, don't base your attitude about TV on your interactions on this forum. All you need to do in TV is to reach out and ask a simple question or extend a smile to another person and you will experience the abundance of warmth and acceptance in the vast majority of people who live and/or work there.
Wishing you all the best as you wade through the process of this important decision. I hope you find happiness and contentment wherever you land.