BJ:
I sympathize no end. Unfortunately, I don't have any particular help for you, except to strongly suggest that you find tomorrow's (that is, Thu 10/2/08) Recreation News out of the Daily Sun and look for news of support group meetings. If nothing seems right in tomorrow's list, check each Thursday's paper as some meetings may be listed only the week before they actually meet! I have found a couple of support groups to help me with my medical afflictions, groups which are wonderful sources of support - and fun, too!
I wish you well, as I know other TOTVers will, too!
SWR