[Abby10]

Originally Posted by Nucky

It's NOTHING but absolutely normal to get on each other's last nerve once in a while. I swear to you that the following words are the most important to a great marriage. YES DEAR! I learned these at a meeting I was attending once and tried it and it works. Most of my buddies needle their wives and vice versa when we go out. It's the way it is for them and I try not to judge I try to do better all the time. Just for the record, I'm not the bright, cheery, funny, charming, funny, handsome, rich, engaging, lite and airy, not air headed man that you think I am! Sometimes I'm a Crabby ******* who takes on the Characteristics of those I can't stand the most.

Mrs. Nucky, on the other hand, would and does give, give, give, give to the point of exhaustion. I support her Lucille Ball-like ways of doing things cause it keeps the house happy. I give all the credit for that to her. I'm glad it rubbed off on me over the years. When I get home some days and the Muscia is blaring and the Bleach is flying and the dancing's happening I just stand back and wait for direction. I know how to be the Leader of The Pack, I like following most of the time now. I don't wanna be the Boss No Mo!

I'd rather be with her than anybody else on (Earf). She is the only one that I would miss more than Barney . I never wanna have any regrets so help me NOTHING! Kids excepted.

No matter what most things are now worth NOTHING but not arguing about. In the end Yes is going to be the answer to most items being discussed anywho! In the end, I'll just end up, Jacked Up.

Well you certainly helped me with that, dear friend, and when I say it to my hubby, he just beams. He loves it, especially when he knows I'd probably rather put up a good argument than relent. So thank you for that.