[ColdNoMore]

Originally Posted by BK001

I had to nothing but read this twice -- the part about "refuse the friendship of all who are not like you". It bothered me. At first it sounded offensive and I thought "this doesn't sound like Nucky to me" until I re-read it.

I assume it means refuse the friendship of those who are not faithful ... don't keep promises ... are afraid of admitting to making mistakes and don't amend their ways. Not as in those who may be culturally, politically, racially or differing in opinions.

I love TOTV but, just like e-mail and text messages, there is always so much that can be misinterpreted with this one-dimensional communication. I prefer talking -- seeing your facial expressions -- hearing your tone -- much easier not to misunderstand. But, sigh, at the moment, it's the best we have.

That's why frequently one of us has had to say to another of us ..."That was a joke" ... since he takes things literally.

Too much room for error. But right now, more importantly I need to get ready for a date with my oncologist so in perspective, none of this is important, is it?

NOTHING but good points.

In doing further research (I like facts ), and putting it into context (that was missing), Confucius also said..."Have no friends not equal to yourself."

Which I interpret to mean, to also not support those who are immoral, liars, racists, hypocrites, bigots, Etc....and to make sure you set a high personal bar.

Of which, of course...is great advice.

But like you said, the important stuff is to have a good report from your oncologist...so best of luck.