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Of course I know that, Jazuela, I am married to one of the good guys.
My observation that you quoted was about the way things seem to be shaking out around us in the general population. Too much scowling.
My dad was a good guy, too.
I cannot imagine putting up with any other kind.
When my daughter was a teenager, she had to listen to my motherly words of wisdom about the male of the species. (I always treated her to my little talks while I was driving down the interstate at 70mph with her in the passenger seat.)
Here are a few quotes from those talks -- not actually talks -- just me talking while she rolled her eyes:
"Boomette, never forget that there is nothing more dangerous than an insecure male."
"Boomette, don't you ever settle."
"Boomette, get your education and be able to earn money on your own."
"Boomette, do not even think about some loser who is oh so misunderstood and tell yourself that he "needs" you to fix him. And I don't care how cute he is."
"Boomette, are they still using the line, "You would if you loved me"?
"Boomette, never, ever "loan" a guy money."
(Anyway, Boomette turned out just fine. I knew she was just pretending she was not listening to me.)
I am sure there were more things I said, but for now I have some paperwork that I am avoiding by writing posts on TOTV. I bet others can add to this with advice they gave to their daughters.
-- And, yes, this is the Feminine Forum. The long thread "Girl Talk" here started more than a decade ago by Barefoot. The reason it began was to allow a conversation that moved from topic to topic easily and freely like when women are together -- and as we know, we as women can follow it all with no complaints about jumping off topic. If you look at Page 1 of "Girl Talk", you will see how it was off and running from the start. (I think at the time, some of the guys tried to start their own forum but it fizzled.)
(Oh but wait! I also give advice to women who find themselves back in the dating world. "You can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats the server.")
Boomer