Lots of good tips on this thread.
Mrs Spoiler and I have been on a few cruises over the years as well.
We always have enjoyed a mid-ship room away from the elevators (noisy)) and a few levels down from the top (noisy). Also the bigger the ship we were on, it seemed to be the smoothest ride. If someone does get an ocean view room, just be sure its not on the level that is looking out at the lifeboats or out at the walking track, as both would obstruct your view a bit.
If you can see springing for a few extra bucks, you would certainly enjoy a balcony room a little more. Its really not that much more and certainly worth it.
If you want to be cold, go cruise on the Pacific, if you don't want to be cold, the Caribbean may be better for you.
Another important point is that when they say what time they are leaving a port... make sure you are on the ship, as they will leave you.. ...
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