[Villagesgal]

Life is unfair, that's just the way it is. At 60 I was widowed twice, first after 32 years, he died of cancer, second after 8 years, he died from complications of Parkinson's that came on quickly. Both were amazingly happy marriages. Life is not fair. I now pay a single supplement for most things, resign yourself to it, it's just the way life is. Yes, it makes life harder, but it is doable. If you want things to change don't complain on this site, it does nothing to change things. Go to the Villages community meetings, stand up and make your case to people who could actually change things and then respectfully listen to their reasons why things are as they are. Be a voice for change where it counts, or stop whinning.