There is not one of us who are innocent. Some have larger groups of friends. Maybe that is the reason for "tribes". I am just trying to think...........Maybe what our parents taught us as little children is what guides us in some way forever, or didn't teach us. Maybe it is a genetic thing that makes us choose certain things and people and distance ourselves from others. Every woman in our family is a strong woman and none of them have married men who didn't like strong women. The men are strong themselves and kind. This goes back to our great grandmother. If voting for women hadn't been made a law, our granddaughter would have been working on it, just like those other gals before her. She is a brilliant woman with the gift of words.....and patience. I think she has found a good partner. That makes it all the nicer.