"Learn, grow and make themselves better" is right on the money and applies to everyone.
Most of us are well aware of past and current problems and we should be trying to work together peacefully and respectfully if we ever want to move ahead. Those who engage in dialog should be able to see the whole picture, respect and try to understand all points of view, not just focus on a single aspect.
Like you said, and I agree, "we all need to learn, grow and make" ourselves better..