[chachacha]

hello sharon,

as one whose husband died on dec 17 (13 years ago) i understand the shock you are going through and the compounding of all the celebration of Christmas that makes it even harder....i know a widow who was going to start a support group and i will look very hard for her number. meanwhile, please let us help you, as blondie suggested, by meeting soon for a cup of tea (a good cup of tea cures everything, right?) and listening. you can pm any of us and we will set it up....your husband did well to bring you here and you will be among friends.