You might have liked Men's Days and Ladies Days (although no couples days) before they were canceled indefinitely due to you-know-what. If you find any other events like you speak of, I'd be interested to.
There are tournaments and such 'sanctioned' by The Villages. The website "golfthevillages.com" lists them. But it sounds like you might be looking for something more regular and casual...same as me.
I'll keep an eye and ear out.