[chachacha]

i, too, have been aggravated over this situation in a slightly different way. when i bought my home as a single woman, i asked if my significant other could be listed as a resident because he will spend winters here, but they said if his name was not on the deed he could not be a resident. therefore, i really only get half the amenities which married couples get and still pay the same fee. i do not golf nor does my friend but for example, if i want to play water volleyball, he cannot. he cannot join any clubs with me. this is annoying and prevents me from enjoying my own amenities at times so that he will not be left out. we also have to pay more for his tickets to shows, etc. i feel if a person is going to be a regular winter visitor there should be some way to accomodate that. i guess there are a myriad of situations and we cannot all be satisfied with everything.