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Old 01-03-2021, 05:11 AM
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The real question is: Why does it always bother YOU so much whenever you read about someone who does that. I agree it is useless just as is driving in a car with a mask but it seems to really bug you. If it makes **THEM** feel better why not just leave them to their overdone comfort and security since it is causing NO ONE any harm. Think of ot like sleeping with a security blanket. Constantly making fools of people who are doing nothing that affects you is far worse than wearing a mask while 20 feet from someone or in a car with the windows closed. Seems to be some kind of obsession as you constantly comment on people who do that. Let them take care of themselves as long as it causes you no personal discomfort or harm.
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The old modified for forums use saying that "It's not WHAT YOU SAY (WRITE) it's HOW YOU SAY (WRITE) IT" would fit here. LOL, if he wants to make someone "worry less" it can easily be explained in a way that does not embarrass, insult or make someone look or feel like a fool. IIRC he says he's a doctor. Would that condescending attitude be considered good "bedside manners?" If the intent is to educate someone there certainly is a better way to express that knowledge in a nicer manner.
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I got his point very clearly and he repeats it time and again anytime someone says they wear a mask outside the 6' zone or in a place where it doesn't help like in a car. It's the condescending attitude not the "fact" that he states which is correct. Maybe explain it in a way that doesn't make someone look or feel like a fool.
Dear Moderator,

My original response to his first post was neither political nor directed specifically at him, yet it was removed. These three posts would appear to be specifically directed at me, including the capitalized "YOU". So, is there a specific rule regarding posts or isn't there?, because I would love to respond to these posts, possibly even with a "condescending" attitude.