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Originally Posted by DAVES

We went through both. My wife's parents had everything pre-paid and pre-planed in a time of grief, it was all done as they wished.

On my side, while there were no disputes between my sister and I, we thanks to my great, great, great, grandfather have a huge family plot. By pre-paying you make your decision as to what and where clear to all. For us yet another unresolved dispute.
I want to be buried, wife want to be cremated. Solution-beats me.

I know of someone with the same situation who lost her husband suddenly. She has requested to be buried with her cremains in his arms, where she wants to be.