Jan:
How very, very sad all this is.
First, of course, because of Amity's illness. But, that you and she will learn to deal with, whereever you may end up.
Second, of course, because you'll be leaving The Villages, with undoubtedly a somewhat sour taste. That too shall pass, but, as my Dad used to say, "T'ain't fair, McGee!"
Third, what's to become of our favorite place to find out who's doing what here in TV!
My personal best wishes to you both.
SWR