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Originally Posted by G.R.I.T.S.
Been there! Give yourself a little time before jumping back in. Your next partner will appreciate it!
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Agreed. I've seen a couple of my buddies, that seemed to be in a hurry to jump back into a relationship after a divorce without taking the time to grieve and spending the time to get to really know themselves (after all, there's almost always some culpability from both sides). One friend even had a date tell him, after hearing about his recent divorce, that he gave off a bit of a "desperation" vibe. She said this to help him, not to be mean and instead of getting mad, he took it to heart and did what she suggested. He says it was some of the best advice he had ever received.