Before trying Surgery, I use an over the counter product called Prostagenics. It has a plant based substance call beta sterol which seems to relieve to need to get up 5 or 6 times a night. It takes about 30 days to see the results but they are dramatic. I went from 5 or 6 times a night to once or twice. It is available on Amazon for $99 for a 90 day supply. You need to take three pills a day but it is a lot better than surgery. I have 4 or 5 friends who have tried it with similar results. If it does not work in 30 days you can always opt for the surgery. Here is the link on Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/ProstaGenix-M...b-c05699555c56