OP, in my humble opinion, you may need to take the initiative. For example are there any sports or hobbies you like, go to these or find the clubs involved. I happen to like bowling, ended up in 6 leagues with a lot of friends, I am going to try golf for a couple of days a week so i will cut back on bowling. my wife has gotten into several arts and crafts clubs as well as a woman's gold league. There are lots of things to do.
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Pennsylvania, for 60+ years, most recently, Allentown, now TV. 
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