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Old 08-02-2021, 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted by La lamy View Post
I've been wondering lately why some people choose not to smile or say hello when crossing others on the street or a walking trail. I'm not sure if it's because I was born in a small town, but I love spreading cheer whenever I can. When I was in a big city for decades I didn't expect it, but love the TV village I'm in because so many people like to say hello. In my new northern summer home (125,000 population) I find there's some people who choose not to acknowledge my boyfriend and I when we are on a walk which feels so weird. What's your experience? Is what our parents teach us "don't speak to strangers" continue into adulthood for some of you, or do you prefer saying hello whenever you can?
Probably not how you thought this post would go. I believe that one should make a decision based on the situation and location. Taking your morning walk in your neighborhood in The Villages feel free to wave and say good morning if you wish. It is a long time custom to waive at someone (especially in a golf cart) as they pass. We generally do and get the appropriate response. Something special about this place.