[Velvet]

Originally Posted by Villagesgal

You won't feel out of place here as a widower, there will be plenty of single women wanting your company. Be careful, choose a woman, don't let them bulldoze you into exclusivity right away. I am a widow and see this happening every day to single men here, especially the recently widowed. Enjoy your life, if you meet someone whose company you enjoy, don't rush into any long term commitment. I hear woman at the rec centers go on and on about how they dislike their guy, but love his pension and social security check. Don't become one of those "guys". That said, just enjoy the area and what it has to offer, the clubs, the pools, the sports, the squares. It is wonderful here. Hope you come and enjoy this next stage of your life. I know I am loving it here.

I agree, some even try to go at my husband. Even though he is wearing his ring.

Lots of females here, a good sign of a nice female is she hasn’t got her mouth open all the time.