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Originally Posted by Penglobal
As a newbie single lady, I'm just getting my feet wet here in The Villages and have been looking for male companionship. I have tried the normal avenues but the men that I have met appear immature, ALL looking for one thing and some men are viewing me as a "meal card", (male version of a gold-digger).
I'm seeking an unmarried gentlemen in his 60's for companionship, friendship and happy times. BTW - The gentlemen MOST be unmarried. Do you guys have any suggestions? Thanks !
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my guess is that single females probably outnumber single males here 4 to 1. Maybe more. and men if they are older, divorced or widowed and over 60 tend to want to go younger, not the same age or older. TV seems to be overwhelmingly couples anyway, and so I think it's gotta be a bit tough to be single here for either gender.
I think your odds are not good. but there are clubs. Tons. Singles events. Tons. get "out there". but keep your expectations reasonable - I mean, what do YOU bring to the table? unless you are perfect, drop-dead gorgeous, and without baggage, I think you have to make some compromises if you want "companionship". when you're over 60, everyone has baggage, and few are gorgeous. Men or women. Adjust your expectations to what this market will bear. I think it would be less frustrating. If I were single, I think I'd move from here. it's just too much of a couples atmosphere to find the density of older singles you'd want to find.