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Old 10-14-2021, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted by blueash View Post
So on a thread about trying to find a decent man, we find a man about town who views women like buses to be ridden and where a lady's most important attribute is vaginal lubrication. Of course he will tell you he is a lady's man and not a misogynist. Only dates attractive women, although some have needed plastic surgery to make the grade, and while his brain seems not to have an edit button, his "equipment" sort of still works.

At least the OP has been able to cross one name off her list. I have been warned by the moderators not to direct comments at posters. So if I disappear for a while.. you deserve all the derision people have directed at you in the replies, and you might note that not a single person has come to your defense. That would be a clue for most people.

blueash,

You should not be benched.

I was too easy on the porcine-type behavior when I first tried to get my point across. I regret my dance with words. It did not work.

I had stupidly thought I might get an apology to the women here.

Then, yesterday evening when I took another look at the thread, I could not believe that other comment was actually happening.

I wanted to advise him, “Please stop digging. Please apologize for the first mistake and edit that last one out.”

But I did not. (The old high school, teacher in me often hangs on to a positive expectancy quotient and tries to redirect behavior without causing embarrassment to the individual. But, this is not high school — or is it?)

To manaboutown:

That got weird. Although we definitely do not always agree on issues in the news, I never thought you would dig in on crude behavior and then make things worse. The first one was asinine locker room behavior. The “medical” comment was weird and creepy. Maybe there was a cocktail or two involved. I do not know. But please make it go away so I can try to un-see it. Please do damage control. We do not need moderators involved. You have the opportunity to fix it. We’ll see.

Boomer

PS: blueash, there you have it. I was finally direct. If you are benched and I am not, I will sit on that bench beside you anyway.

Last edited by Boomer; 10-14-2021 at 09:01 AM.