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Originally Posted by charlieo1126@gmail.com
woman here , I know many woman here who live very independently they date but they are not out looking for mr right all the time if something did happen well so be it , but many love there homes there friends nice cars and not having to answer to anyone , I myself am I very social person but love living alone , solitude when you want it is a very nice thing , especially when your sitting on the lanai with Miles and Coltrane smoking some weed lol
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i never suggested otherwise. I think it's important that people are up front about what they want and don't want. It will avoid many problems. for either gender.
I think my only point is that TV is a tough place to be an older single woman given what are likely the demographics here and overwhelmingly couples-oriented sort of place.
so if she only wants companionship, say so. If she's uninterested in sex, say so. If she wants the man to pick up all the tabs, say so. if she expects a man to be financially secure (not sure how that plays into this if you are only seeking companionship), say so up front. most problems are solved. I just think the odds are not that great around here from mere observation. I have run into a lot of widows, but not too many single older men. but there are some out there of course.
again, I think a lot of dating issues are solved if people are honest about themselves, honest about what they want and don't want. that being said, people will misrepresent themselves in dating ads. it's the nature of the game. It's gotta be tough out there. I wouldn't want to be. but at these ages, everyone has baggage. Everyone has a past. just be honest!!