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Old 12-27-2021, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Bonanza View Post
Nothing in this life is 100%, be it good or bad. There are many accolades that fit the lifestyle of living in TV, but is it perfect? Of course not and far from it. While much of the negativity is true we can still benefit from it by trying to make whatever it is better.

The simple change in someone's lifestyle from moving from a completely different environment can be traumatic for some. But telling them to move somewhere else is disgraceful and about as negative as one can get!
Telling someone to move if they are unhappy is for their own benefit. They need to give themselves that option too. Why would they want to stay where they are miserable? One life, it might as well be the happiest one they can have. (Unless, of course they chose to be miserable, always find something to make themselves unhappy.)

The trauma of change can be likened to growing pains, part of getting to something better.