I belive you are worried for nothing. I imagine if it is a concern to him. He may be the one that will have to answer this for himself. I truly belive the both of you will have a grand time here and will be included in all you attempt to partcipate in. At our ages we reccognize the varity of people is what makes our world very interesting and more delightful. Bring a smile and a great personality to the table and you will be fine. Good luck in your decision.
Judi in woodbury.