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Old 08-04-2022, 07:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Jayhawk View Post
Apparently your only child made a decision at some point to leave family for their own reasons. Wouldn't they want you to be happy with your quality of life?

No dilemma. Make your visits quality time and everyone wins. The kids and grandkids have their own lives to live.
Proximity to, or distance from, adult children and grand children is a factor within the scope of “quality of life”: do what you like, and consider that you will acquire limitations with age.