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Originally Posted by MartinSE

Now that I am in my 70's things are starting to wear out and some of those clubs I paid dues into all my life are starting to pay dividends (smoking 2 packs of non-filter Pall Mall's a day for 45 years - approximately $98,000 not counting interest) like the membership in the "I got cancer" club...

I have been pondering lately if it would have made any difference if my parents and grandparents had ever discussed how their health was and how it was impacting their quality of life. My family considered any discussion of health taboo, off limits - those dark little secrets not to be discussed.

Since I retired I have encouraged my children (7 kids - almost countless grand and great-grand kids) to ask questions and openly discuss health issues.

What is everyones opinion.

Do you openly discuss growing older with your kids - not preaching, just openly discussing it.

Just did it in detail this week as part of a life-long discussion. I'm getting a trust drawn up, so discussed this and other end of life issues. My birthday was yesterday & that's what prompted it. I only have one child and was a single parent. He's not wanted to hear this stuff before, so this time progress was made. I'm happy and the discussion will continue.