Keep an eye on the 'REQUESTS' made under your ID#. This is the first item on the menu after signing into Villages.net and logging in under the golf tab. Any requests will show and it will be before the tee time is assigned. Once tee times are assigned, you get points. At this time, you can call the golf office and they will be able to tell you who made the request. You can cancel yourself out of the request or have them do it for you.
When we moved to The Villages, we attended The School of Good Golf. IMO, this should be mandatory before making a tee time... but I'm not in charge so it will never happen. At minimum, the booklet
http://www.golfthevillages.com/golf-...heVillages.pdf
should be in the closing documents. If you've never reviewed it, please do and also keep for future reference on how things really work.