[PugMom]

Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby

Yes, she came in as a refugee - which means - undocumented. Also, "our way of life" is embracing differences. She is not losing herself or her upbringing or heritage or culture. She is merely now adding herself, upbringing, and culture to this melting pot on an official basis.

She's still a dark-skinned plump Haitian woman whose first language is Creole, has nappy hair, wears a weave, eats food that most Americans can't pronounce, and lives to serve her family and clients without a single thought to stocks and pensions and wealth management.

may she have all the happiness she deserves! this is a heartwarming story