It's a challenging and stressful situation...I care for two 87 year old parents, and it's only going to get harder. My father fell recently and spent nearly two weeks in the hospital, followed up by out patient physical therapy and then some self-pay home health care.
Someone introduced me to Lisa Honke at
MEET THE TEAM - Your Key To Senior Living Options , she spent a lot of time educating and informing me about options, and when she didn't know the answers or couldn't help, she usually found someone who could. Her services are free, so give her a call, absolutely nothing to lose, and she really is a wealth of knowledge about health care / senior living options in this area.