You have to remember that the staff that caters to your every whim, by and large, come from third world countries. They work long, hard hours, seven days a week for the duration of their contract. When they have time off, they typically get some sleep, or go ashore in search of free WiFi to contact family back home. The few extra dollars put into their hand means A LOT to these folks.
What has worked well for us over the years is: on Day 1, I identify the bartender at the bar/lounge where we will typically gather with friends. I put a $20 bill in his/her hand, and say "thank you for taking care of us." I do the same for our stateroom attendant. That has always ensured we get great service during our cruise, and a few additional bucks along the way doesn't hurt. We also provide additional tips, cash directly into their hand, on the last night, including wait staff.
This is your vacation...you should budget additional tips for the people who help make it special. An extra couple hundred bucks is not going to affect your life, but it could very well brighten the day for those that labor to make your vacation memorable. We have even been on cruises where a bartender, or dining room waiter, remembered my wife and I, and our names, from previous cruises. Treat the "little people" fairly and with respect...you will be rewarded.
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