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Originally Posted by fdpaq0580
Just a different point of view, if I may.
You are simply acting as your wife's chauffeur in your scenario. You could drop your wife at the door. It would be closer than handicapped parking. You could wait anywhere in the parking area since you are not accompanying her. You don't need that handicap spot. Let someone who really needs it have it. When your wife is done shopping she can call you and you can pick her up at the door. That way everyone wins.
By the way, your last sentence is threatening In a manner that indicates you recognize that you know you don't need or deserve the handicap spot. You seem also to recognize that it is yourself who has an indignant and self-righteous attitude that makes you so defensive about your abuse of handicap parking needs. You are are essentially an Uber, on call, driver. Handicap parking is not waiting stalls for Uber or taxies.
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Did you not read where I stated my wife wants to do as much for herself as possible, she wants to walk from the car to the store and back if she can. She doesn't want to be dropped off and picked up. That is what she wants and I will park my car in a disabled spot to accommodate her regardless of what anyone else thinks we should do. When the wife can't walk from the handicapped space, I will drive her to the door and pick her up and not use a handicapped space to park when waiting for her.
I have no tolerance for busy bodies sticking their nose where it doesn't belong. My business is mine, not someone else's. Over the years I have learned that most people who have the need to mind other people's business need to clean their house first as it usually needs it far more than the person that they are criticizing. It is the epitome of disrespect and entitlement when you feel the need to tell everyone else how to live.
I have also learned that when I concern myself with my own life and ignore everyone else's, I have a much happier life.