[Happydaz]

Originally Posted by Pairadocs

One of the interesting things about this website is how a person can post an interesting picture, as you did, for others to enjoy, but not asking for any admonishment, advice, or even help with your photography skills ! It's wonderful when anyone ASKS for advice, help, or the experiences of others, but your post is not the only example of someone who is most likely a mature adult, capable of determining risk/reward, and not in need of, or asking for, parenting. Yet, notice how many feel obligated to tell you exactly what you should, or should not do, tell you how close or far away you "should" be for your photos, etc. etc. etc. Don't know if you are a native, perhaps so, perhaps not, but as an adult you probably don't need to be supervised and advised. The joke would be if the "parents" who chimed in, rather than complimenting you for sharing the photo, probably came from some far northern state and no nothing about 'gators....LOL ! Careful of those types, they will tell you to run in a zig zag pattern.... not good advice...LOL ! Another example, someone will share an interesting experience, say paddle boarding, and sure enough someone on here will give their own, unasked for, opinion, lol. They will post, "I'd never do that, you can't tell what is in that water, there can be snakes, and gators", when the person just wanted to share a new experience in case someone else might want to try it. People sometimes can't stop being parents....LOL... maybe that's it ? Or, maybe they think other adults actually like being cautioned about this and that ? Who knows ! Sure glad my 84 year old brother in law, and 82 year old sister did not post about what a fantastic time they had sky diving for the first time over Easter with their grown children. Bet that would have had this TOTV's on fire about how they should not be going that "at their age".... LOL !

I think the unwelcome advice and admonishment comes from many Villagers who have grown old and very risk averse. These are the same people who partied like crazy when they were young but now all they see is “Danger, Danger, Danger!” It is just part of the aging process for many of us as we age. We also see that things are not as good as they used to be and all the young people are lazy. Who can forget the 1960’s when many of us were running around like crazy and all the oldsters were saying we were ruining the country. Now we are saying the same thing. My brother who has lived in Jackson Hole, Wyoming for over 40 years as a ski professional always likes to quote a local saying that goes “If your life gets boring, risk it!”