As we age
I understand that it is rude, however there may be more to it then entitlement. As we age, the familiar become increasingly important to us (I missed the classes as to why). A building demolished along the walking path a senior takes daily for exercise can throw them into a panic. Changing the menu of a diner of coffee shop they go to daily can result in a crisis . reserving a space for someone not there, or asking someone to leave a space is rude, however I try to be understanding. My Mom is in an ALF. Her and two other ladies have "their" table to eat at. They do not ask people to leave (though they may), but one will arrive45 minutes to an hour early to get that table. There are always other empty tables all through meals, but they must have that one. I tried to bring it up with them, which resulted in their getting agitated. I don't want to agitate 82 to 99 year olds. You and your wide are fortunate to have each other. If possible do not let this occupy too much of your time.
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