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Old 12-22-2023, 04:27 AM
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Originally Posted by BigSteph View Post
I understand what you are saying.

The problem with this post is that the reader will personalize what you said and may be offended. If you have kids and grandkids, it will probably offend you.

I think the answer to your question/assertion is that people are proud of their kids and grandkids.

My wife and I decided not to have children. When we gather with others, especially when people are lubricated, they talk with less inhibition about the things that interest them.

I have experienced what you have experienced. People tend to want to talk about how special, in some way, their children and grand children are. I get it, they are proud, and this person is important to them.

Some people love small talk. I like it for a few minutes. If you are going to be social it is just something you that will be part of the conversation -- like taxes, aches and pains, golf swings, those other political people, and children.

It is what it is.
No offense taken. Most understand it can get old hearing about the same subject over and over no matter the content.