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Originally Posted by dhdallas
It may be that your upbringing was not the same as these family centered people's experiences and that can make it annoying to hear their latest family news. A secret envy of another's closeness with their family may also factor into it. And if a person is childless, it can hurt to hear stories of another's joy they experience having children and grandchildren.
Family oriented people have the utmost respect and unconditional love for their families, and it shows. This is one of those signs you can't deny when you find yourself in the presence of a family oriented individual.
When one of the family members accomplishes something (no matter how big or small), they'll be glowing with pride (like that achievement is yours) and love to share their joy & excitement. These families thrive on emotional connection and understanding. They’re fully engaged with their children and grandchildren and are there for the small moments. Children know they can count on a parent or grandparent to notice the little wins, like learning to ride a bicycle or tying shoelaces correctly.
Distance can be hard when family members are separated due to their occupation, retirement, etc. Talking to others about their children or grandchildren's latest achievements or antics help miss them a little bit less. Now with technology advances, families can have video chats as often as they like.
So, that is my take on those who are proud of their family and want to share. If you want any of these people for friends just grin & bear it & try to see it from their point.
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Sorry, I see it more as ME, ME, ME! MINE, My DNA. Admire me!
Again, if you know the family members yourself, or you are close to your friend and delight in their joy, that is completely different from the circumstances that people are complaining about here. Can’t you see that too much pride can be an ugly thing?