[ElDiabloJoe]

Originally Posted by Sandy and Ed

…..more sociable? More approachable?? Friendlier? Inviting?? I don’t know for sure but probably something along those lines

This is how one can be targeted for victimization. Make eye contact with every one you walk past, don't stare at the sidewalk with your Rolex on your arm and your Barney's bag in your hand. Get to know people before you start sharing personal details with them. Look around you before you step out of a store onto the sidewalk. Wait in the parking lot of the bank for someone to come out before walking into an unknown situation. Lots of examples of why some are targeted and others are not. How people behave in public is how one can tell who was former military or first responder, and who was a salesperson. A wise man once said, and I'm going to paraphrase for censorship purposes: Smile and be polite to everyone, but always have an immediate gameplan to neutralize them in the back of your mind."