My wife plays a lot of tennis. Along with playing regularly in two groups, she is constantly being asked to sub when this-or-that group is missing a player for their scheduled time. She is not only a pretty darn good tennis player (I'd say 4.0) but she is also a very nice person.
She has numerous stories about women who may be asked to join a certain group but who end up being prima donnas, PITAs, etc., and who may start as a regular with this-or-that group but who not only may be dropped from their group but who also may find that the times they're asked to sub are few and far between.
I imagine that the golfing groups are similar.
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