Don't be apprehensive...it's going to be great! The best way to meet people is to go to the clubs, classes activities, recreation that interests you. There, you will automatically meet people with similar interests. Join the Facebook groups for your village, your home state, sports team, single in the villages, etc. Get personal "business cards" printed as people like to exchange these when they meet someone new (or create a separate phone contact for yourself to share that has the information you wish to communicate - first name, last initial, village you live in, cell number and email). Do go to the bars/restaurants and sit at the bar (even if you just have a soda) or eat dinner/an appetizer at the bar as a single. Talk to everyone you meet - it's uncomfortable for many but everyone is so friendly that it becomes real easy real soon. The main point here is just to get out of the house. I am not single, but my husband travels a lot and I frequently go out solo but I am never alone for long. Most importantly, give it time. You will build a great social network, but it does take time and effort to get there. Good luck and have the best time as you begin the new phase of your life!
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