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Old 09-29-2024, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by La lamy View Post
If a single man approached me while I was half naked with my eyes closed resting on a lounge chair at the pool, I would find it crazy creepy. Maybe while people are standing in the pool you could strike up a conversation, but I think there are much more appropriate ways to meet people to date. I think the suggestions of joining groups/hobbies/sports you like is the way to go.
I think that a swimming pool is a great place to meet people, better than a bar. People are more relaxed and the activity of swimming can encourage conversations. Your local neighbors are there at least the active ones. As far as sports go .......softball is big, but the teams are not usually mixed. Tennis leagues have many female participants. There are coed volleyball leagues. Pickleball can be coed. And if you get very desperate, you could take up Golf. And I forgot that water volleyball is coed and can be a lot of fun and refreshing in the summer HEAT.