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Old 11-02-2024, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Michael 61 View Post
I think most of us were attracted to The Villages because we sought an active retirement. I’ve been a resident here now almost two years, and am busier now than ever. I keep a huge desk calendar to track all my activities, clubs, entertainment, recreational and social obligations. For the next several months, I literally have at least 2-4 obligations every day, with no downtime on my calendar. I hit the ground running first thing in the morning and stay busy into the evening most days. After two years here, I am busier now than when I first moved here, checking out all the activities. Granted, it’s a “good busy”, and I love everything I do, but it can be exhausting at times keeping up with everything. It’s common for me to be double and tripled booked, having to reschedule and juggle social obligations. I keep saying I need to “pair back” on some of my activities, but I enjoy socializing with all my various friends here. Does anyone else share this sentiment ? Two years here - and the “cool aid” effect that others told me about hasn’t worn off yet (thinking now it may never will - lol)
Nothing like pre-retirement, but to clarify, only because I have complete control of my time and responsibilities now so I can be as busy each day as I care to be, and have no urgency to do, or not do, any activities here. Autonomy is GREAT. Never have experienced any double, triple, etc. booking or feelings of exhaustion like during career years, again, became I have total and complete control !

Last edited by Pairadocs; 11-02-2024 at 11:55 AM. Reason: added word for clarity