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Originally Posted by Michael 61
I’ve always wanted a dog, but never had one while working, as I didn’t think it was fair to a dog to be inside, crated and alone for the majority of the day while I was at work. I always thought that once I retired, I would finally get a puppy, and invest a lot of time with training, and walking several times per day. Well, since retiring to The Villages, and with all my activities, I don’t see how I could fit having a dog into my busy lifestyle. Many of my neighbors who have dogs are not engaged in very many activities here in The Villages, as their dogs seem to take up most of their time. Often times, they have to turn down social and recreational invites, or cut them short, because they have to get back to let their dog out or care for it. Interested to hear from other posters who manage to have a dog and are still very active outside their home everyday here in The Villages. I’m thinking maybe dog ownership will have to wait until I’m older and maybe less active.
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I think you are right in every way. People with dogs frequently have to leave early or schedule themselves around taking care of their dogs. If they don’t, they are abusing their dogs. You are also right that you shouldn’t have a dog at this time.
No question—owning a dog takes a lot of time, and it can cost a lot of money. I had a cute little dog for several years, but it fell in love with my ex-girlfriend’s dog, and when I moved to Florida, I gave the dog to her. It is still with her. The dog it fell in love with died, but it has now fallen for her new dog. I was very fond of my dog, but I don’t really feel temperamentally inclined to get another one.
My ex-girlfriend’s dogs have among the best of dog lives. She rides and competes on her horses and spends summers in the mountains of New Jersey and winters in Ocala. She has big fenced yards, but the dogs go almost everywhere with her. Most days they go to the barn with her and hang out off-leash, loved by everyone. When she rides her horse for several miles, they run alongside. If she’s not riding, at least she takes them on a walk through the hills for a couple miles, off-leash. If she’s out doing errands, usually the dogs go along in the car or truck. They love it. They sleep on her bed with her.
Lots of dogs here aren’t able to do that, and lots of dog owners can’t, either. I think the real dog people are happy to deal with the restrictions their dogs necessitate.