I have to say that you have had no experience with this. Medicaid makes you liquidate all of the assets, including the home and land that have been in your family for 5 generations, and anything else of value, including your great-grandmother's ring. I didn't mind paying our fair share, but why does it not preserve some assets? It takes everything you have (including that cushy 2nd home you have) to get the bare minimum of care. Otherwise, you are forced to care for your loved one at home with around-the-clock care when your loved one cannot speak, chew, move, or have any kind of quality of life.
I get angry when I read these kinds of posts. You have never been there, you don't know the anguish, the agony, the exhaustion. And to say there should be wards with beds with shared bathroom facilities is ludicrous. When my mom was mobile, there was plenty of time there was feces and urine everywhere because she had no control. We cleaned the bathroom 5-6 times per day many weeks.
You people don't know what you are talking about. You are assuming that the loved ones in these situations can walk, talk, feed themselves, and entertain themselves. IT. IS. NOT. TRUE! They reach points where they can not even chew and swallow but still don't qualify for full-time skilled nursing care because you provided TOO well for your spouse to be taken care of. I will get off my rant now, but go visit the nursing homes and follow the CNA around for a day and see if your mind changes.
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